Why do turkish men like blondes

My mind is racing. What if he follows me when I get off? Luckily Turkish men outside of Sultanahmet make up for their sleazy counterparts. Turkish people sure love to accompany you! And, as an end note I must admit I can see how you could fall for a Turkish man. You see many also like to stroke their girlfriends in public.

Seriously, us women are not cats. It was not because of your yellow hair and blue eyes why the Turkish noticed you, but it was because they sensed that you were not Turkish. What attracst both Turkish men and women are foreigners Americans, Europeans, Arabs. Omd, that is sooooo true… from the beginning to the end!

I liked though that you have mentioned that Turks outside Sultanahmet are adequate and normal people! Thats what I have noticed too. I lived in Bodrum, Turkey and know exactly what you mean about the staring! I have spent some time in Istanbul and I thought small towns in U. Not even close, compared to Istanbul! Being a foreighner, period, will get all kinds of unwanted stares and looks. Tho most men there do go after blondes more, cause I had my hair blonde, and it does draw more unwanted attention!

Now I know why my BF wanted me to dye my hair darker. Whats your favourite country? Why would someone visit the desert? In which country did you have the most unforgettable travel experience? Where to visit in Peru? Will a tall white blonde get more attention in Costa Rica than in the states? American girl visiting Russia? Best Forms Of Time Travel? Costo de viaje de Mexico a Europa? Yeah, seems legit…. And it worked out! But venting anger at an entire nation because you got swindled by a pretty young boy with a nice tan is not an appropriate response.

Get a grip. Yes dear, you are absolutely right…it is very stupid for a European woman to have an affair with a Turk man…the great majority of them are uneducated, ugly, dirty and cunning. Not to mention their women.. We my wife and I firmly believe that:!

I fully understand that this sort of thing does not happen in the U K , every couple have perfect harmony in their relationship!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I like Antalya as a nice summer place and I visit Turkey so many times a year, right now I am Turkey. It sounds overly weird to me that some foreigner women are dating with Turkish men. They do not let their female relatives to have sex before marriage and so they cannot find sex partners. And they run after any foreigner women, thinking that she must be easy.

I think Turkish men are hypocrite. The world is full of men who are more female-friendly if you know what I mean. And besides how disgusting they tend to be, they are mostly not good looking at all. They are very short for men in the first place. I never like Turkish men. And let me add this, there may be some good looking and not disgusting Turkish guys but they are very rare.

They are mostly disgusting. Well I hope it was not heart-breaking I just wanted to write the truth. West starts from Greece until L.

A and east from Turkey. If you want same looking men but with a more European attitude and lots of university education you can always try in Greece.

As mentioned previously, education plays a big part of how the individual is behaving towards other people in a society. They are all Liersss…??? No matter how hurt u are Turkey is over Turkish people is not arabic Different things Its selfish people all over the world in every nations also cheats If you met with wrong person nice going with blaming all turkish people….

I have just read your post about turkish man. I agreed, I am at the same situation. Beware of men lining up pretending to mind their own business… They are waiting for you to look the other way so they can signal your wife or girlfriend.. When you see a man rubbing his chin wants sex , pretend to yawn with his hand index finger touching the thumb and staring at your mate wants blow job , if shes not interested she will move her chin, lips and forehead up or ignore him.

If she is interested, she will pretend to itch rub her cheek sign for im a prostitute and or while to pretend fixing or playing with her hair flashes the fingers.

There are good genuine people in Turkey though. I myself confirm everything i stated as fact and true. Its just the way it is here in Turkey. Trust my words. I have been suffering 3 years of a suspicious partner in my marriage and it ended all to be true i was a fool the whole time. I was single for 5 years, and had kids. We use to Skype a lot, and one-day he wanted to meet my kids.

So I introduced my daughter to him, and my daughter looked at him, and she pulled me up, and pulled me to the side, and told me that he look crazy. I said, What!! She said yes mother he look like a killer. I laugh it off, and told her to watch cartoons.

So I went back to my computer, and sat down, then I looked at him for a second time closely, and saw what my daughter was talking about.. So he kept asking me when will I come to Istanbul. I told him that i have to get to know him first, I saw he got a little angry at me, so I told him that I will talk to him later, ok. This man told me if he ever see me in Istanbul, he will kill me, and cut my body in small pieces, and put me in a trash bag, and throw me in the ocean.

God Bless your friends and family, and God Bless you. Ha ha — You can also tell him that quite a few women have remarked on his looks. This page has had over 60, views! Ya to be fair he is, so is his brother, we r here laughing because them story line was holiday romances and what Turkish men r like then I see him I was like omg ha ha,.

Turkey is best place for spending holiday with family…2 years ago i went turkey.. You are a woman at your late 40s who came to Turkey for fun, have met a young boy at his 20s who probably is there for a part time work in the summer, got some relations with him and you still expect him to be honest?

No, this is selfish…. Yes, for a young boy to fall in love is very easy. For those who really fall in love with each other and get married: years you spend together is the best medicine to cope with cultural gap between.

By time you will meet at midpoint. One thing more, not all men you see in Turkey are ethnic Turks… I wont say more about this since i do not want to be labeled with being a racist. Nat knows what would i say, though.. Thats why i have written this article on my blog, but you seem to be very stubborn in your narrow mindedness so maybe it will not make sense to you!

I had my own Turkish romance with a friend I made about a year ago over Twitter who meets on that anyway? He was nice enough to give me tips about Istanbul and soon after, we just became really good friends.

Sad, but it was something I struggled to accept. With that in mind, we kept in contact up till the moment we met in Taksim. We met as friends. We chilled out all day as he took me all over town to show me what any tourist would want to see and even side streets and all the nooks and crannies of Istanbul.

It was such a good day. We eventually settled for a beer and when we got back, we sat together on his sofa and watched some TV while just enjoying each others company. It was so … normal? He trammed all the way from work to see me as I was in a hostel and not his place for most of my trip because he lived a little far from the City.

I met his brother, teased him about looking older than my friend. It was so perfect. Then, the day came for me to leave. It broke me down so badly to leave him behind. You just need to be smart with the people you meet and to be able to read them well. Enjoy the butterflies! Love is a gift from God. Thank you so much Judit, such kind and wise words. My emotions are all over the place, I feel so vulnerable with regards to him.

One minute hes so lovely and the next he upsets me by not contacting me for a couple of days. Time will show you are right. Saying you love someone is easy, showing it proves far more to me. I feel like two different people. I am so glad you have spoken to me I dont feel such an idiot.

You are a lovely person thanks — I will keep you updated — take care xx. There is no reason to judge. Love can happen to anyone and you seem to be in love head over heels. Moreover you do think responsibly regarding your family. Very very tough situation: At least he lived closer! Here is my story for you not that any parallel can be drawn with your case just for you to see I fully understand the situation. I fell for a guy kilometers away five years ago. I lived in a marriage I still do and my daughter was 9 then.

Finally when I was already back home he messaged me he went back to his wife which I think was a lame excuse and we lost contact. We feel that we have so much to give emotionally and we need someone who we can love and of course we want to be wanted and loved. You are worried and confused now. Time will show. I have been reading all the stories with interest and despair in some cases … Until fairly recently I lived in Turkey for 10 years; I bought and sold a property there, ran my own business for 5 years and employed many Turkish and Kurdish men and have seen absolutely everything first hand.

I, myself, in the course of that time had long term relationships with 3 men — one was a professional who treated me perfectly and is still a true friend to this day — one a younger Turk and one a slightly younger Kurd and believe me they are all worlds apart from each other. I also met the families in their home surroundings, 1st one was from a local high profile family and the other 2 were from the East which enabled me to travel through Turkey extensively over the years and I can safely say that I have experienced every single point raised in all the Comments.

I have many many regrets and in my case the only one who was hurt was myself — I did however experience a very different life and culture for many years and had some wonderful travel experiences but I was self sufficient and actually moved over there when my marriage in the UK ended and I had my Turkish property to live in and after a time I decided to move into business.

I was determined not to be beaten down by them literally! I know there are some females who come hunting several times a year and I know there are also some very vulnerable and genuine women who come on holiday never thinking that their lives will change forever.

This is my basic story and if it prevents even one more woman from having to go through a degrading and even dangerous experience then it will be worth it for me. Thank you Judit for your advice — my children are still at primary school — I am sooo confused I cant think straight — it sounds so cliche my situation and I would probably be telling a friend to get the hell out of it — but I am in it and cannot see the wood for the trees!!!

Hello Susan. I admit I missed your previous comments but assume you have a stable life in your home country with family and job. Provided that you are bored with your life there especially with your husband and provided your children are grown-ups?

I hope you agree. Pay at least one more longer visit to get in terms with him and find out what exactly you want to do with your life. Nobody else can make this decision but you. If you feel unhappy in your life is this only because you got bored with your marriage? If so go and do what your heart dictates you.

The ones who love you will understand and support you. Thanks for your feedback Judit — Can you let me know in what way it would be helpful? In the past, if a reader sees a comment is more than six months old, it tends to halt the discussions. It would be so helpful if readers could see when exactly a particular comment appeared on the blog. Hi people I posted on here last year after meeting a Turkish guy on holiday even though im married and I was out there with my whole family.

We have tried to break it off a few times as I have children and we both are very concerned about the heartache it will cause so many people my end. I recently went over there and we ended up having a full blown fling — he is a good man but has a low paid job — has never asked or wanted money from me not that I have any!

It is a well known fact that every nation has its own good and bad people. Therefore i will not comment nor advice about the romance situation except telling travellers to be smart. But it is just funny to see how some people can change their standarts from tall, blue eyed, european to average hindu within just one or two commenat gap and gathering around with whole the family to promote the some specific region of a country to visit.

Not all the people Turkish in Turkey. You will realize that if you through the history. If you say mens in Turkey, then it make sense.

In the meantime, here so many comment about private life and experiences. How can I judge these comment when I read from one side? You are either racist or blind. Turkish men come in all shapes and sizes. Poke around the Internet and you will see a lot of blogs like this one, but about men from other countries. There are bad men in every country, con artists, rapists, women-beaters. The core of them matter is that the Europeans believe that they are culturally superior and that every other culture should be striving to be like them.

In this case the issue is the ability of women to chose sexual partners as they please. In the west this is accepted to some extent, but in Turkey it generally is not. It s not better or worse, it is just different. Tourists need to be aware of this, and that generally those men in those places look at a woman who would sleep with a man before marriage as a whore, and while I believe prostitutes deserve respect as a basic human right, they do not.

I avoid that type of man in any country. I have been living in Turkey most of my adult life. I know Turkish men to be kind, family-oriented, courageous and loving. I think the ones that are being discussed here are far from their families and are behaving badly— and for them to live far from their families means that something is not right with them, and for them to choose to be prey on foreign women is so dishonorable, I can only think they are suffering from mental illness.

Mental illness is vastly under treated in Turkey, almost never. And in the West sociopathy is not treated often— so imagine. Be very careful, people. Your actions can have real consequences and you must take responsibility for yourselves.

Read about the beliefs of the people in the country you are going to visit, understand their understanding of sexual mores. In a fair world these things would not happen, but it is not a fair world.

Very bad things can happen to very nice people. Be careful. The care of yourself. My experience with Turkish men has been positive. I set boundaries and demand formality and respect. Hi I am Sara and i am the relative of Victoria who lavished praises about north Indians in the above post.. North Indians are far civilised than south indians and this Rape case which happned in New delhi was just because some illegal Bangladeshi citizens migrated to New delhi and it has been proved already that they were not indians ,Also to throw some light about North indians : they really are very well cultured and have respect for women and they don;t treat white woman as a piece of meat whereas in turkey every muslim over there thinks that white girl means free sex.

That is so absurd. Last year i went with my american boyfriend there and we were sitting in a restaurant and one of the turkish waiter asked me if i would like to go for a date with him. What the hell they think about white woman. Where as in india i went with my boyfriend and nobody there even bothered us or starred at us…When you talk about rape in india then please dont forget that it has population of more than 1. On any given day I would love to fly to india and explore it….

I read about the rape stories. India is different, very different. There your ass get grabbed, and also boobs. Or in the worst case you will be raped and police will tell you that it is your fault.

Santeri was watching just beside him and tried to make him stop by starting to rub himself on the guy. He did not get subtle the hint, but exited the bus soon enough. Other passengers were watching the drama like business as usual. In Turkey we did not experience this kind of behaviour.

I think over pages on this blog shows what I think about Turkey Sara. Have a look around and you will see a variety of articles that I have wrote. Sure, I have come across desperate Turkish men. Not been to India so can not really say what the difference between them and Turkish men is.

I would like to ask Natalie the moderator of this blog. What she thinks abt turkey herself and i am sure she must have come across some desperate turkish menand if she has been to india already? In Kenya, Jamaica and Indonesia they were called beach boys. Some of them had managed to strike gold and make a woman to fall in love and give away her possessions while other kept selling their services to women looking for a holiday romance.

Sex is a strong driver in life so it is just natural that it is also an important motivator for travels. Ladies if you are really looking for true love then go to north indians.. Hindus are way too advanced than muslims and they give so much respect to foreigners and they really believe in long relationships and it would be very interesting to know that divorce rate is very less in india especially being such a huge country.

North indian men are fair and very handsome….. Every turkish men in turkey thinks that we white girls are piece of meat and they can eat us whenever they want but in india it was totally different……. I have been living in Turkey for a few years for business. Well, Turkish men are not my type. The avarage Turkish man is around 1. I am more into tall and blue eyed European man. So I have always rejected Turkish guys.

I have dated European men living in Istanbul. For my experiences the stuff that i see around , Turkish men are pretty sexist. For most of them, women who have sex with their boyfriends are easy. I really see a lot of examples of this. And they want to go abroad, getting the citizenship of western countries. But i actually found out that it was from his previous marriage. A very level headed approach to the situation Zee — Well done for dealing with it in the way you have.

No parties have been hurt or gone home with expectations. I agree cultural differences are too big-and after deligh of knowing european woman pass-they will rather be with turkish woman,. I saw this blog by accident and had to write my experience. It is really like most here. I met turkish men accidentally.

I went to visit him in Istanbul ofc. First night he was very offensive about christian culture and I was in shock.. After that we stayed in conntact for a while but he was never the same. I never understood what happened but this blog helped me a lot. So thank you ladies. And want to warn all women that turkish men say sweet and big words very easy and can be VERY persistent in that! But actually those words are bunch of an empty craps. There are exceptions always ofc. Best of all, they all spoke English so communication was not a problem.

I met a hot, friendly guy just outside the Blue Mosque who offered to show me around the city during my free time. We swopped numbers and agreed to go for dinner the next night. We met one of the tram stations and he showed me around the old city and took me to an awesome kebab place. We spoke alot, about our different lives, mine in my home country and his in Istanbul and Uskudar.

He was charming and funny and not at all forward or inappropriate. He is 25, 3 years my junior, but so much more mature than guys my age at home. We spoke about our different cultures but we shared the same religion, as I am Muslim too. He refused to let me pay for anything that evening, and as it was late, he called a taxi and paid the driver to take me back to my hotel.

We chatted a bit during the day and agreed to meet again on the weekend together with friends for a night out. Neither of us drink alcohol so it was a pretty calm night out with dinner, bowling and a dance club. We kissed and it was amazing. He again called a taxi for my friend and i to get back to the hotel.

The next night we met was my last night in Istanbul before leaving for home. I wanted to make it memorable and so did he. We had a romantic night out, including a cruise on the Bosphorus and dinner on the Asian side..

We both had no expectations and he never promised me anything, and neither did i. All in all, i had an awesome time and probably some of the most romantic times in my life. Its all a mindset to have.. Any relationship across cultural and religious boundaries are not easy to sustain. Never seen or heard of a Turkish man wearing the ring on the middle finger. Maybe he put it there because it is too big for his wedding finger?

Also you have just said everything that I said in the article not sure why you are thinking that I am saying all men are the same? I read many articles here most of quit pity. I never been married British Women or Europe women. Also she said I can get full permanent visa and after one I can apply British passport.

I had few similar experiences with British girls and Irish girls in UK good experience bad experience. Now I have German girl friend 7 years together I have 2 lovely kids but I m not still married yet for visa even I have now British citizen.

Hi Chris, because I was struggling to find out what it was. Hope you keep reading, it has been good to have your input and comments. No more washing machine! Keep up the good work. He never wanted any money from me. So, are there any other stereotypes we did not prove to be wrong? It is never about race, nationality, religion.

That does seem right…. Trinket is exactly right. And I met him here in America, green card in hand…. I finally kicked her out and divorced about 7 months ago.. Cheers From Chicago. I will ask some of my other readers to find out what they think about dates. Thanks for telling me about the washing machine though. Not sure what that is but will look into it. Sorry to hear that it has been a while since you were last with Murat. A horrible situation when you are stuck in limbo but I always say what is meant to be will be.

This goes on for a few minutes and drives me mad! It still hurts, but it refuses to lie down and die. I wish it would, to be honest.

Maybe then I could get on with my life. Personally I think if he was that into you, he would be making an effort to maintain contact. I think you should try and move on with your life. All signs indict that he has moved on with his. Natalie, thank you for adding that. Have you asked him direct whether there is a future for you both? If not, that is your first step but be prepared for an answer either way. Let me know what he says. Natalie, the Guy that I am telling you, I think I already fall for him.

And I admit we datd, I am very happy when he is in my side. I able to meet his family too. They are all friendly I met them thru Online chat. But something happened and he needs to go back in turkey because of the business. And when he got there I think he changed a lot. He talk to me very seldom. WHat should I do. Hi I agree with the controlling nature they have I was married to one I am english and my husband beat me slept with other women and then beat me every time he did, and then accused me of destroying his honor when really he did not know the meaning of the word, however saying that I am not so shallow that I think they are all the same, my friend is married to a Turkish man and he worships the ground she walks on as does she him …he is in the uk and works for a living they work very hard at making there relationship work and he would not dream of hurting her,.

Life might surprise you but I would be very weary of trusting a man who had already severed the relationship twice because times got tough. Love is always confusing and never easy Cindy but from reading your story, I think your friends are right.

You should move on. He has told you twice that it is over. Hi, i just need a bit of input on my relationship. I am Angolan, 27 years old and at my place of work i met this Turkish guy who is 30years old. He works here in Angola at a branch of my company. He was persistent and pursued me for 6months before i agreed to date him.

He was nice, kind, charming and all the whole lot, said he loved me, told me i was his life and he wanted to marry me. We talked about kids, where we would settle etc. I cried and begged him, told him i will stand by him no matter what and he said he couldnt.

He refused picking my calls and answering my texts or emails, so i tried to forget him. I asked if thats all he could say after cutting off all communication with me and he replied that we are over and he had nothing else to say, i asked what i did to him and he said it was him as he has no control of his life any more.

So i asked him if he wanted me to wait for him so he could sort out his life and he replied yes. I know he isnt married and he has told me his parents will not have an issue with me but i dnt know if its a lie or if he has a serious relationship in Turkey. How can you love someone one minute and let her go the next minute? Hi Chris, I completely changed themes and then decided that the present one was looking too cluttered so a number of things went including the comment dates.

I thought that new readers might not take notice of some of the comments because they were more than a year old, however they still added value to the conversation. It seems you think different though. Do you think readers want to see dates? I just think something is missing when we have no idea when the posts were made.

Comment edited — Before you start writing personal insults as replies, please read the comment carefully. If you do not understand it, please do not comment! I would like to be your tour advisor, like checking itineraries, giving advise about routes and evaluate prices competitiveness. If you like, I can even accompany you in historical, touristic and gourmet destinations. I love to show people that turkish people are descent and nice.

PS: I already have a schengen and england visa. Anyway, Vanesa, if u ever get interested in my offer, you can replay me, as I said, it will be a pleasure for me. Which you will then pass on to your poor, ignorant wife. Oh my gosh, he is Turkish. EVERY turkish man without exception is contaminated with leprosy and lyssa. Those deseases are transmitted through blood sucking, although lookes some barbaric, its a daily activity of the turks and part of their horrible culture.

Also most probably the flag that he gave you is a woodoo witchcraft hex. He said directly he was horny. That is it! I will remember…either to stop and go now and quick! I think you need to look at what he is saying to find out if it means something. Is he saying he loves you and wants to be with you? Or is he talking to you as a friend? If you do not feel comfortable with the conversations then stop communicating with him. I have only skim read all this…… I am half Turkish…Turkey is a wonderful and exciting place…..

Get over it, there are disappointing men everywhere….. Mostly American women are whore only a few of them are nice women. I can tell that because I have been in the USA for 3 years. I am sorry for you guys. I am telling my Turkish friends from here.

They seems super cool and friendly but in the reality they become so different. If you guys have relationship with them stay away from them or stay in Turkey. I think you did a great job for writing a blog like this. First, i want to write something about Kadir. I think he is not educated well and he is not smart. We all have mothers, fathers some of them are alive some of them are not. We have to treat well to the other person.

Never mind him and his writings. I think love is sacred, because of that you can not say this to a person who just met or who you know just a few weeks. If a Turkish men introduce you to his family, maybe you can trust him, maybe. Maybe he is afraid of his parents but if he loves you, he has to a take a risk. I am writing that book lol!! I was told no medical insurance too but I was never asked for money to pay for medical thank God — oh no I was asked for much more than that!

He is after the visa and money. In Turkey it takes about 2 years for a man to decide whether he will marry the girl he loves or not. You may ask him if he has a bachelor degree or not to understand the his level. Because in Turkey, universities are nearly fee-less, and only the hard working and intelligent people go.

He is trying to use you.